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[MMaRsu]

Problem is I cant really train legs and stuff if I only have hand weights

But I just ordered a bunch of shit like a jumprope, new weights, creatine, grippy socks, phone holder for running, thermal clothes, lifting grips, and ankel/wrist weights.

I almost ordered a treadmill but fuck it It'll just go walking outside

And Im gonna change up my food patterns, so I wont be snacking on some chippies

Gonna be harder when Im high af and got the munchies but It'll just buy fruit and nuts, and yoghurt.

[Potato]

I can recommended buying a bike for commuting. Just make sure you've got end of trip facilities at work. Nobody needs to smell a sweaty human while working.

[Nintex]

This is the Netherlands. Everyone rides a bike and no work place has a shower.

[Potato]

This is the Netherlands. Everyone rides a bike and no work place has a shower.

[MMaRsu]

True, I already have a bike. Just gonna try eating better and getting more exercise.

[MMaRsu]

She said sorry I am responding so late, i've been a bit distant lately

I sent some dumb shit back like "hey no worries that doesnt really matter at all, is something on your mind or is it just your crappy matrass (she mentioned her bed was fucked up). 

Instead of just saying "lol thats what happens when you smoke weed everyday" (she's a huge stoner)

Now I'm not even getting a msg back at all SMH I am such an idiot but I guess its obvious she wasnt interested in the first place (ofcourse she's already taken anyway). 

I wish I could just shut my feelings off. Right now Im like bummed out that she's not sending anything anymore. :( But I already knew ahead of time it was an uphill battle. At least if I had sent something funny instead of some stupid shit like above I might have had a chance (????)

Stuck at work and it's so boring because there's nothing happening. So im stuck with my thoughts. 

Yesterday I did received my new weights, jumprope, ankel weights, creatine. Went for a hour long fast walk, getting groceries and walking back with a full backpack.
Used my weights and the jumprope.

Also bought a bunch of healthy food like chicken & rice. Lets get this weight loss shit going.

[MMaRsu]

I really should take Patrice O Neal's words about women to heart. And make sure my happiness is no1. 

Not let my feelings of self worth be dictated by women.

[Uncle]

definitely don't spiral over some random text you sent, though I know that's easy enough to say

what's done is done, need to not give a fuck and go off and do dope shit

[DavidCroquet]

What is going on in this thread.

MMaRsu, may I recommend sluts? They have all the complex interior lives of normal girls, so you can form unrequited emotional attachments while still getting laid. 

Actually I'm gonna go ahead and extend this recommendation to everyone on the forum. Myself included.

[MMaRsu]

What is going on in this thread.

MMaRsu, may I recommend sluts? They have all the complex interior lives of normal girls, so you can form unrequited emotional attachments while still getting laid. 

Actually I'm gonna go ahead and extend this recommendation to everyone on the forum. Myself included.

Sorry I kinda turned this into a relationship adjecent bitching thread lmao

Sluts are nice but how to meet them? 

Also if your self worth is as low as mine, even sluts wont be attracted to you :(

[Uncle]

marsupilami is one of those cartoon properties like the smurfs where a US kid just always knew something was slightly "off" about it and then years later you find out it was european and everything makes sense

like it just suddenly springs up on local media in the 90s, fully formed and without context, and without any hook at all it's just like "he's a furry guy who likes to have fun"   ok?

no insult, I'm sure he's great, just vibes

for us it was a one season disney cartoon show that was briefly everywhere and then gone as suddenly as he appeared

[MMaRsu]

marsupilami is one of those cartoon properties like the smurfs where a US kid just always knew something was slightly "off" about it and then years later you find out it was european and everything makes sense

like it just suddenly springs up on local media in the 90s, fully formed and without context, and without any hook at all it's just like "he's a furry guy who likes to have fun"   ok?

no insult, I'm sure he's great, just vibes

for us it was a one season disney cartoon show that was briefly everywhere and then gone as suddenly as he appeared

Yeah his origin is in the french comics Robbedoes & Kwabbernoot (sorry this is the dutch title), and he appeared as a guest character there. 

I think they brought him with them from the jungle as well, but I can't be sure, it's been too long. 

He was always a cool fun character, with ADHD tendencies and me having ADHD as a kid made me latch onto this character. 




And he has a fun tail which he can whip into a fist..

[Cauliflower Of Love]

She barely texts me back, I dont even know why Im texting her Besides I wanna get closer to her but she's already taken 🫨

I'm gonna give you some advice that's going to haunt you for ages.

Go for it. That person she's attached to is just whatever if she's giving you eyes. 

Get that. 

Spoiler:  (click to show)(click to hide)

when you find out she doesn't know what she wants you can squalor in a hate spiral.

It will be a fun ride. 


If she says yes then you got a stew going.

[MMaRsu]

She barely texts me back, I dont even know why Im texting her Besides I wanna get closer to her but she's already taken 🫨

I'm gonna give you some advice that's going to haunt you for ages.

Go for it. That person she's attached to is just whatever if she's giving you eyes. 

Get that. 

Spoiler:  (click to show)(click to hide)

when you find out she doesn't know what she wants you can squalor in a hate spiral.

It will be a fun ride. 


If she says yes then you got a stew going.

Shit I'd love nothing more than that. 

The guy she's with is an absolute tool if you ask me. 

I met her through like a gaming thing here in my city, every two weeks they meet up and play smash/sf6 and stuff like that. 

She's so much my type its crazy. 

I absolutely think we would be a great match. 

And yes she was eying me, even in the grocery store when I ran into her there the other day. Making googly eyes at me. 

No way she wasnt interested. 

I just think I might have fucked it up with lame messages instead of funny and cool. 

But if she hasnt messaged me back in three days im kinda getting the ehh she doesnt really care feel. Otherwise she could have sent something back at any time.

[Cauliflower Of Love]

She barely texts me back, I dont even know why Im texting her Besides I wanna get closer to her but she's already taken 🫨

I'm gonna give you some advice that's going to haunt you for ages.

Go for it. That person she's attached to is just whatever if she's giving you eyes. 

Get that. 

Spoiler:  (click to show)(click to hide)

when you find out she doesn't know what she wants you can squalor in a hate spiral.

It will be a fun ride. 


If she says yes then you got a stew going.

Shit I'd love nothing more than that. 

The guy she's with is an absolute tool if you ask me. 

I met her through like a gaming thing here in my city, every two weeks they meet up and play smash/sf6 and stuff like that. 

She's so much my type its crazy. 

I absolutely think we would be a great match. 

And yes she was eying me, even in the grocery store when I ran into her there the other day. Making googly eyes at me. 

No way she wasnt interested. 

I just think I might have fucked it up with lame messages instead of funny and cool. 

But if she hasnt messaged me back in three days im kinda getting the ehh she doesnt really care feel. Otherwise she could have sent something back at any time.

roll the die 

the worst she can say is no when you're direct, and then you move on.

[Uncle]

draft it cauliflower

straight up, "hey, I'm interested, but you've gotta break things off with him first" 

[Cauliflower Of Love]

draft it cauliflower

straight up, "hey, I'm interested, but you've gotta break things off with him first" 

nah,

that's no fun. 

The hiding is where it's at.

[MMaRsu]

I dont know what you guys mean lol.. Ill just pussy out and not send her anything anymore. I hate sending another msg without getting a reply on an old one.

I already pussied up when I asked her if there was anything on her mind so I better just let it be

smh

[Uncle]

marsupilami is one of those cartoon properties like the smurfs where a US kid just always knew something was slightly "off" about it and then years later you find out it was european and everything makes sense

like it just suddenly springs up on local media in the 90s, fully formed and without context, and without any hook at all it's just like "he's a furry guy who likes to have fun"   ok?

no insult, I'm sure he's great, just vibes

for us it was a one season disney cartoon show that was briefly everywhere and then gone as suddenly as he appeared

Yeah his origin is in the french comics Robbedoes & Kwabbernoot (sorry this is the dutch title), and he appeared as a guest character there. 

I think they brought him with them from the jungle as well, but I can't be sure, it's been too long. 

He was always a cool fun character, with ADHD tendencies and me having ADHD as a kid made me latch onto this character. 




And he has a fun tail which he can whip into a fist..

just found this which is interesting

https://www.pipelinecomics.com/comic-book-artist-franquin-sues-disney-and-wins/

[Cauliflower Of Love]

I dont know what you guys mean lol.. Ill just pussy out and not send her anything anymore. I hate sending another msg without getting a reply on an old one.

I already pussied up when I asked her if there was anything on her mind so I better just let it be

smh

need suggestions on a fleshlight?

[MMaRsu]

I dont know what you guys mean lol.. Ill just pussy out and not send her anything anymore. I hate sending another msg without getting a reply on an old one.

I already pussied up when I asked her if there was anything on her mind so I better just let it be

smh

need suggestions on a fleshlight?

Nah im good lol.. I dont need that shit haha. 

I just hate being infatuated with someone and then I fuck it up because I overthink things.

[Nintex]

I met her through like a gaming thing here in my city, every two weeks they meet up and play smash/sf6 and stuff like that.

Just send any of these with the caption:

me and you

[Cauliflower Of Love]

I dont know what you guys mean lol.. Ill just pussy out and not send her anything anymore. I hate sending another msg without getting a reply on an old one.

I already pussied up when I asked her if there was anything on her mind so I better just let it be

smh

need suggestions on a fleshlight?

Nah im good lol.. I dont need that shit haha. 

I just hate being infatuated with someone and then I fuck it up because I overthink things.

The worst thing she can say is no. You can move on after that. Take your shot.

And stop badmouthing fleshlights, wtf.

[MMaRsu]

need suggestions on a fleshlight?

Nah im good lol.. I dont need that shit haha. 

I just hate being infatuated with someone and then I fuck it up because I overthink things.

The worst thing she can say is no. You can move on after that. Take your shot.

And stop badmouthing fleshlights, wtf.

You are 100% right. The problem is I do like going to that gaming meetup they got going every two weeks. 
Its good for me to meet new people, I don't have a lot of friends in this town as it is sadly. 
If I let her know I like her, and she's like nah I probably won't ever be going there again lol. 

But yeah, the only real reason I ever went was because of her. 

I havent heard from her for four days now, It doesnt feel like she's really interested. Otherwise she probably would have sent something back by now. 
Ofcourse she could be actually busy or have shit going on in her life. I don't know any of that. We really aren't that close. 

I would love nothing more than to actually let her know I like her. 
I just don't think it would be the best idea at this time. Through a text? I'd probably send some weak ass shit again. 

I did get a match through like a hookup app, its called Feeld. It's more for actually just hooking up. 

Probably better to focus on that

It would probably be better to try and forget about her. Just to save myself the inevitable pain when she says lol no thx or never messages me back again.

I mean do I want to move on? Or do I just want to wait for her to be single so I can shoot my shot???

[Cauliflower Of Love]

If I let her know I like her, and she's like nah I probably won't ever be going there again lol. 

Why not?

[MMaRsu]

If I let her know I like her, and she's like nah I probably won't ever be going there again lol. 

Why not?

Well for one, her BF goes there as well. So he might want to confront me if I try to hit up his girl or confess to her that im digging her

For seconds, she's like the only person there I kinda know. So I just gravitate to her, and we usually play Smash Bros

But if I fuck all that up It'll feel like I'm going there on my own again, and I find it difficult to make friends

[Uncle]

then just wait until you see her there next time and you will find out the reasons for being left on read

"omg I'm so sorry, I was on vacation and didn't see them until I got back"

[Cauliflower Of Love]

I got some advice from someone a long time ago.

They were taken, and I was told, you go for what you want.

It didn't work out, and I'm apparently a piece of shit, but if it had worked, it would have been glorious.

So basically, do you want a story in ten years or do you want to be lamenting?

[MMaRsu]

I got some advice from someone a long time ago.

They were taken, and I was told, you go for what you want.

It didn't work out, and I'm apparently a piece of shit, but if it had worked, it would have been glorious.

So basically, do you want a story in ten years or do you want to be lamenting?

Man you are 100% correct.

I just don't know if I can pull a move when I have the feeling she's kinda eh on me now because my text game is super weak.

Like I didnt say one funny witty thing to her lmao. Im such an idiot. Im actually kinda mad at myself for already fucking it up when this was someone I was really into like after years of not meeting anyone cool.

I didnt tease her or make fun of her, i talked about some GF leak because she's a pokemon head and thought she would find it interesting but wtf was I blabbering on about, I dont fucking know.

All because my self worth is in the shitter and I didnt even act a little cocky or cool.

[MMaRsu]

The only real thing I think I can still pull off, is not go to that meet for a few weeks, work on myself, my weight, go running, eat better, and then just go there, see if she's there, if she is I'll try to connect with her.

If I have the courage to actually tell her what I think, that might be good.

Better than sending her another text

On the other hand, there's nothing I would love to do more than send her a voice text lmao. And just come clean and say my piece and be done with it. At least then I won't be thinking about it for weeks lmao.

If I make myself super available that probably won't be super attractive tho lol. Fuck