Random Talk

[killamajig]

If I let her know I like her, and she's like nah I probably won't ever be going there again lol. 

Why not?

Well for one, her BF goes there as well. So he might want to confront me if I try to hit up his girl or confess to her that im digging her

For seconds, she's like the only person there I kinda know. So I just gravitate to her, and we usually play Smash Bros

But if I fuck all that up It'll feel like I'm going there on my own again, and I find it difficult to make friends

Basically what you need to do is make a pass at her and let her know you're interested but not be a creep or threatening and ruin it.

If you're playing smash with her and the dude's not around Wait till a good moment where you're both having a good time and laughing about something. Tell her how much fun you're having with her and you wish you could find a girlfriend like her. Quickly follow up with a "Hey, you don't have any single friends that are like you?" That way you can let her know that you're into her without directly telling her and getting into some awkward moment. Tell her you're looking for a permanent Smash partner and maybe she would know other people that are into similar things that she is into. Tell her all of the things you are looking for in a partner (which of course will be all the things you know and like about her)If she's blonde tell her you are into blondes.. This way she won't be sure if you made a pass or it's just in her head. It's an easy way to get into dating talk that's not overt. I banged a chick that started out trying to set me up. Dating talk turned into sex talk, then into real sex.

Maybe she doesn't take the bait or maybe she actually knows somebody and can hook you up. You or somebody else can punch up the script but you get the idea. Figure out a subtle way to let her know that you're available and that you like her vibe without putting her on the spot. And don't press it if she never brings it up after that. That will be your clue she's not on board. You never know. It might put a seed in her brain that grows after some time. Maybe she gets into a fight with her bf a few months later and she asks if you're still looking.

As an old dude that's been in a lot of relationships and seen a lot of relationships, it's possible.

[MMaRsu]

Thx man that sounds like great advice. I'll skip going for a few times and work on my self worth in the meantime.

I can pull your tips off for sure, thanks man I really appreciate it.

[Nintex]

Thx man that sounds like great advice. I'll skip going for a few times and work on my self worth in the meantime.

I can pull your tips off for sure, thanks man I really appreciate it.

Don't skip, keep going. Worst thing you can do is skip.

Never give up

[Uncle]

holy shit what mastermind moves

[MMaRsu]

Thx man that sounds like great advice. I'll skip going for a few times and work on my self worth in the meantime.

I can pull your tips off for sure, thanks man I really appreciate it.

Don't skip, keep going. Worst thing you can do is skip.

Never give up

Yeah maybe. I don't know. I kinda wanted to lose a bit of weight and work on myself.

Next time is like a Halloween thing too, but I don't have any Halloween stuff lmao.

[Nintex]

Thx man that sounds like great advice. I'll skip going for a few times and work on my self worth in the meantime.

I can pull your tips off for sure, thanks man I really appreciate it.

Don't skip, keep going. Worst thing you can do is skip.

Never give up

Yeah maybe. I don't know. I kinda wanted to lose a bit of weight and work on myself.

Next time is like a Halloween thing too, but I don't have any Halloween stuff lmao.

Halloween is easy. Just a vampire cape, butcher gown, Joker suit or whatever. 
Since it's a gaming thing you can also pretty easily pull off a Resident Evil character or Alan Wake. 

Last year I got the Squid Game suit and mask.

The women will no doubt put at least 5x more effort in their outfits.

[Cauliflower Of Love]

you know what give me her number

[Cauliflower Of Love]

Thx man that sounds like great advice. I'll skip going for a few times and work on my self worth in the meantime.

I can pull your tips off for sure, thanks man I really appreciate it.

Don't skip, keep going. Worst thing you can do is skip.

Never give up

rare nintex post worthy of ups

[Polident]

Halloween is easy. Just a vampire cape, butcher gown, Joker suit or whatever. 
Since it's a gaming thing you can also pretty easily pull off a Resident Evil character or Alan Wake. 

Last year I got the Squid Game suit and mask.

The women will no doubt put at least 5x more effort in their outfits.

Current meta is Leon Kennedy, to match the overwhelming amount of ladies dressing as Ada Wong in tight red dresses or sweaters.

[HardcoreRetro]

Dress as Ada Wong as well, but have your bulge showing. Call yourself Ada Wang. Sure to be a succes.

[MMaRsu]

All that shits pretty expensive for something I'm wearing once lol

https://onni-mode.nl/products/albert-bon...u5EALw_wcB

Although I guess the jacket is cool

I just bought some stupid zombie shirt, some cobwebs, a big spider and some blood capsules.

I'll just throw something on haphazardly

This one isnt quite the same as Leon's but maybe I can pull it off. And for 40 bucks thats pretty cheap

https://www.c-and-a.com/nl/nl/shop/shearling-jas-imitatieleer-2228344/2

[Rendle]

Have you considered just being chill and not overthinking everything. Women dig that

[MMaRsu]

If only my brain allowed me to do that lol

[Nintex]

All that shits pretty expensive for something I'm wearing once lol

https://onni-mode.nl/products/albert-bon...u5EALw_wcB

Although I guess the jacket is cool

I just bought some stupid zombie shirt, some cobwebs, a big spider and some blood capsules.

I'll just throw something on haphazardly

This one isnt quite the same as Leon's but maybe I can pull it off. And for 40 bucks thats pretty cheap

https://www.c-and-a.com/nl/nl/shop/shearling-jas-imitatieleer-2228344/2

That first one looks great, I'm getting that I need a short winter coat anyway.

Some cargo pants, a shirt, a gun holster. Boom.

[Potato]

My suggestion is plague doctor costume. 



The whole getup can be repurposed as a priest costume and chicks dig the idea of fucking a priest.

[Polident]

Dress as Ada Wong as well, but have your bulge showing. Call yourself Ada Wang. Sure to be a succes.

Can confirm. Just saw a guy doing that. Two ladies dressed as RE3r Jill and RE4r Ashley were taking photos with him.

[MMaRsu]

Im not buying an entire outfit for the fact that it costs way too much, and I won't feel comfortable in it. It's not really my thing

I just bought a weird zombie shirt where you can see the entrails, some cobwebs, a big spider, and some blood capsules. 

I'll see what I can do with all that. 

In the past I usually texted her a day before the gaming meet, to ask if she was going. She always responded in the past but should I still do that orrrrrrr nah

I'm feeling a bit better after a weekend of heavy workouts, but ofcourse no weight loss can be seen yet.

Still already pretty anxious about going :x

[MMaRsu]

Dress as Ada Wong as well, but have your bulge showing. Call yourself Ada Wang. Sure to be a succes.

More like Ada Bong and carry around a bong instead

Still mad at myself for simping through texts arghhhhh

[MMaRsu]

I'm just going to go on thursday. See whats the vibe. I'm anxious to go but the only way to overcome that is just to do it. 

I gotta be strong and believe in myself. I'm a nice guy, decent looks, good gaming skills (but lost to her in SSB LOL sad), video editing skills, friendly,

[Uncle]

just keep in mind it's likely all this spiraling here is likely one-sided

not to say that she isn't interested in you, just that all this thought you've put into this seems like it has you a nervous wreck

you gotta empty your mind and pretend this is just a normal gaming hangout visit

[MMaRsu]

Yeah I gotta do some meditation or some shit. I know its all in my head, which is making it 100 times worse. I'm making myself anxious over nothing basically.

I mean it is a normal gaming visit so I should just act normal

This does help tho

[killamajig]

I'm just going to go on thursday. See whats the vibe. I'm anxious to go but the only way to overcome that is just to do it. 

I gotta be strong and believe in myself. I'm a nice guy, decent looks, good gaming skills (but lost to her in SSB LOL sad), video editing skills, friendly,

Since we're doing the Cyrano de Bergerac thing, here's another tip.....

Instead of texting her and asking if she's going to be there, tell her "I'm going to be at (time and place) looking for revenge. And this time I won't be sick with COVID." *Cue laughter* 

Maybe that way you don't feel so simpy. And since it's not a direct question, she doesn't feel compelled to respond. If she does respond even if she says no you at least know she's responding because she wants to.

[MMaRsu]

I'm just going to go on thursday. See whats the vibe. I'm anxious to go but the only way to overcome that is just to do it. 

I gotta be strong and believe in myself. I'm a nice guy, decent looks, good gaming skills (but lost to her in SSB LOL sad), video editing skills, friendly,

Since we're doing the Cyrano de Bergerac thing, here's another tip.....

Instead of texting her and asking if she's going to be there, tell her "I'm going to be at (time and place) looking for revenge. And this time I won't be sick with COVID." *Cue laughter* 

Maybe that way you don't feel so simpy. And since it's not a direct question, she doesn't feel compelled to respond. If she does respond even if she says no you at least know she's responding because she wants to.

That's great man, you're a real one for these tips. I greatly appreciate it. 

I don't quite get the COVID line tho   can you expand on that?

[Uncle]

tbh that sounds too aggressive to me, I would just show up honestly

[killamajig]

Lol, sorry I was just trying to think of a joke response as to why you lost. Like when people say their controller was broken. Only this was a deadly, highly infectious disease. Okay, maybe that sarcasm was a little too dark. I'm into those creepy goth type chicks. They love that stuff. 

Just put a little joke in there. " I would have beat you if it wasn't for *insert silly excuse*"

[Uncle]

sounds kind of like a sore loser to me unless there's already significant rapport where both of you say this kind of thing to each other all the time

[killamajig]

I could be misreading it. I just kind of figured if they're gaming against each other, there's probably some kind of ribbing going on. I think that's why I came up with the covid line. I thought she'd know you're not being serious if you blamed it on covid. Lol

[MMaRsu]

Yeah and coming over the top after my last message, where I basically said "Oh I don't really care if you send txts later", and now a week later no reply yet. 

Would it be too weird to say something like quoting my last msg and stating

"I'm noticing that I do care a little bit lol"

Or would that be too simpy

[Uncle]

at this rate you need to just be patient, show up and say hi in person, maybe sneak in a "why no texts lol"

use the time before thursday to get out of your own head

if she is not there, then go ahead and text "missed you at the gaming thing" and leave it at that, just one text to start

[MMaRsu]

Yea I'll do that  thx Uncle