12-30-2024, 01:17 PM
We have a new development that Bionic is going to like because I've changed my approach to Bumble (Hinge is a story for another time)
My target was basically 2 dating intentions: Long term relationships and lifepartner, I didn't quite get what the latter was but it isn't what I was looking for.
Single moms, high class girls being put up or putting themselves up for 'auction', religious types standing between their parents on the farm looking to marry and other such things.
I noticed some girls in this pool had casual dates as their intention as well as a long term thing in the sense of lets start dating and see if it works out (which to me makes more sense than jumping head first in a long term thing with crazy eyes). So I replaced life partner with casual dates and the flood gates opened with new profiles to explore. Obviously also some crazy ones, for example a girl looking for a 90 year old guy with severe heart problems and a big bank account.
I also now better understand how they use these profiles because the lifepartner profiles and hinge kind of threw me off. These are basically the 'party tricks', like the thing you do when you try to get the attention of somebody at a party after you think you'd do him/her. Be it your silly immitation of Ahnuld or your dream to travel the world one day. "I can beat you at Mario Kart" is one I have seen 100x. They're basically just copy pasting these.
And here is one that Cauliflower will enjoy. Because I've been thinking about that comment: "Why limit yourself by age" and the reason is really that I've always done that. I had an arbritary rule for example that I wouldn't mess around with the interns in my 20's even if one chased me all the way to the parking lot to see if she could change my mind because her tinder dates weren't working out. I also had the rule not to mess around with clients but again this is mostly nonsense because most of the people I talk to aren't really the 'client' anyway just someone working in the communication or marketing department and they are often contractors or switch jobs on a whim.
Now that I'm back into the dating game, I can't change these women(do I even want to?) and I can't change society but I have changed and I'm more indifferent and less judgemental to what they're doing(or who). And the boys available to them are even more worthless than my generation was. I interact with these guys or rather don't because 90% can't look at you, let alone make eye contact. They get their haircuts from Fortnite, they have no interest in anything and they can barely finish a sentence and many are trans/queer/bi/pan or whatever.
The girls are all legal adults, they can set their own limits and decide to like me if they want. So the age limit is gone. As well as liking within my league. Because why settle for mid 7's and not aim higher. They've put themselves on the app anyway. It is what it is, we all play by the same rules.
The only thing I potentially lose are the religious types and 'lifepartner' sort but that wasn't my thing anyway and probably 5% of what is out there. Whatever the girl I pull from the remaining 95% of the pool that decides to stick around confesses to when it gets "serious" is probably way more shocking than anything I've ever done.
My target was basically 2 dating intentions: Long term relationships and lifepartner, I didn't quite get what the latter was but it isn't what I was looking for.
Single moms, high class girls being put up or putting themselves up for 'auction', religious types standing between their parents on the farm looking to marry and other such things.
I noticed some girls in this pool had casual dates as their intention as well as a long term thing in the sense of lets start dating and see if it works out (which to me makes more sense than jumping head first in a long term thing with crazy eyes). So I replaced life partner with casual dates and the flood gates opened with new profiles to explore. Obviously also some crazy ones, for example a girl looking for a 90 year old guy with severe heart problems and a big bank account.
I also now better understand how they use these profiles because the lifepartner profiles and hinge kind of threw me off. These are basically the 'party tricks', like the thing you do when you try to get the attention of somebody at a party after you think you'd do him/her. Be it your silly immitation of Ahnuld or your dream to travel the world one day. "I can beat you at Mario Kart" is one I have seen 100x. They're basically just copy pasting these.
And here is one that Cauliflower will enjoy. Because I've been thinking about that comment: "Why limit yourself by age" and the reason is really that I've always done that. I had an arbritary rule for example that I wouldn't mess around with the interns in my 20's even if one chased me all the way to the parking lot to see if she could change my mind because her tinder dates weren't working out. I also had the rule not to mess around with clients but again this is mostly nonsense because most of the people I talk to aren't really the 'client' anyway just someone working in the communication or marketing department and they are often contractors or switch jobs on a whim.
Now that I'm back into the dating game, I can't change these women(do I even want to?) and I can't change society but I have changed and I'm more indifferent and less judgemental to what they're doing(or who). And the boys available to them are even more worthless than my generation was. I interact with these guys or rather don't because 90% can't look at you, let alone make eye contact. They get their haircuts from Fortnite, they have no interest in anything and they can barely finish a sentence and many are trans/queer/bi/pan or whatever.
The girls are all legal adults, they can set their own limits and decide to like me if they want. So the age limit is gone. As well as liking within my league. Because why settle for mid 7's and not aim higher. They've put themselves on the app anyway. It is what it is, we all play by the same rules.
The only thing I potentially lose are the religious types and 'lifepartner' sort but that wasn't my thing anyway and probably 5% of what is out there. Whatever the girl I pull from the remaining 95% of the pool that decides to stick around confesses to when it gets "serious" is probably way more shocking than anything I've ever done.