Kulturkampf

[benji]

Overall I think he just slides into their DM when others won't, they reply when they usually wouldn't (who wouldn't reply to Elon Musk?) and when they do decide to hear him out IRL he convinces them of his grand vision for the future and saving humanity from extinction.

Some type of "Our child will inherit the stars" kind of thing with the addition of not having to work ever again. 

It's some kind of forbidden fruit taboo story that gets their mind racing and then there is of course all the other women that came before that never said a bad word about the experience, leading them to believe that he is quite skilled and has autistically mastered pleasing the female body or some such.

Or I think more importantly would be that Elon is different in person than he is on Twitter. (Or at least he used to be.) He clearly has some form of personal magnetism that doesn't come across in his tweets. You can discern this from his entire career before Twitter. And even from the reporting of when he walked into Twitter and charmed a number of distrustful staff. He clearly charmed Trump as well.

Grimes may be the type of Twitter weirdo that Elon is, same with this woman, but none of his other women have been. One thing they all had in common is spending personal time with Elon. You can also gather this from Tesla's vague warnings about assigning women to Elon.

Unfortunately, this won't help you personally so you didn't consider it as an explanation despite how obvious it is.