(11 hours ago)Snoopy wrote: It gets better
Quote:Look, I don't know you but that's absolute bullshit. I felt the exact same way about myself and was convinced I had no value and I'd be unloved forever. It took some time but I am no longer like that. My life is not perfect by any means but I can look back at my self-hatred from five years ago and it feels almost alien to the person I am now.
Dating is rarely easy. And it's extra hard to find love when you can't even find self-love. Get new hobbies, go to the gym or start hiking, eat better and most importantly, spend less time on the internet. It's so easy to wallow in negativity when you're not exposed to new positive real life interactions.
Start small and welcome new experiences and people into your life. You'll be surprised how easy it can be to love yourself when you give yourself a chance.
Also, you should watch a movie that came out last year called A Different Man if you legitimately think you're too ugly to find love (spoilers: no one is too ugly to find love)
Op wrote:I've heard this rancid schpiel of toxic horseshit more than enough in my lifetime, and it's mostly why i'm fucking tired of hearing it. I'm at the apex of what I can be, I've been trying for somewhere between months and years just to realize that it will never be enough.
I'm half surprised you also don't suggest I blow thousands of rent money on a Quack Therapist as well.
You're the absolute WORST.
Just kill yourself cunt. Fuck.
Quote:To be honest? It's the modern dating market. My bar is set at "Let's go for a plate of sushi*, and see if you're more entertaining than the meal." You would be surprised how often the sushi is a better conversation partner, and this is before all the hoops beforehand, and keeping up with it. I just don't care.
How does the saying go?
If you walk down the street and run into an arsehole, they're probably an arsehole. If you walk down the street and everyone you run into is an arsehole, you're probably the arsehole.
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