04-17-2025, 09:07 PM
(04-17-2025, 08:24 PM)Hap Shaughnessy wrote: https://www.resetera.com/threads/this-guy-at-my-job-is-getting-on-my-nerves.1155558/page-3#post-138647874
MIMIC wrote:lol I didn't know this thread got bumped. But I can provide a small update.
The app: About a week ago, I found him on the app. I don't know whether he has the feature that allows you to hide yourself from other users (which may be why I never saw him before), whether he just created a new account, or if he saw me first and blocked me and then unblocked me, but…there he was. Around the time I saw him, I was coincidentally incognito myself (unrelated to him). But there's a 50/50 chance he saw me at some point and knows I'm on. My intuition tells me he still doesn't know, but whatever.
Anyway, I immediately blocked him.
Interactions at work: We don't talk. Ever. And I don't say good morning or "bye" anymore. I did come in one day and walked passed him and he said "good morning" (first time he ever initiated a good morning). So I mumbled "good morning" back. Whenever he is telling everyone bye, I don't respond.
This morning, I opened the door for him and he said thank you. I didn't respond. Then says "thank you" again, in a very subtle "you didn't hear me?" sort of way. And I just mumble "oh, you're welcome" in a subtle "why are you speaking to me?" sort of way lol.
Sucks that he works right in front of me now. Our boss moved a group of us to the downstairs office space. Before, he was off to my right out of view. Now, I can literally see his face at all times of the day.
Fiction wrote:Meme Fiction advice:I considered that we may have chatted once, but I honestly don't recognize him. But I would never be rude to anyone when turning anyone down.
Are you sure you didn't viciously turn him down on the apps and he recognized you from the pics?
Interestingly, this thread is linked as an example under the Wikipedia entry for Gay Malicious Faggotry.
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