01-18-2025, 03:55 AM
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(01-17-2025, 09:13 PM)Uncle wrote: (01-17-2025, 08:38 PM)BIONIC wrote: (01-17-2025, 08:23 PM)Uncle wrote: you can move in with me boredfrom, I have a spare room but I have to clean it out first
Will you jerk him off?
only if he suffers needlessly
Wait, are you jerking him off the relieve him of his suffering, or jerking off in such a way as to cause needless suffering?
If the latter, why Uncle?
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 "Nepenthe should not be an admin." (Permanent ban for account with no histories of histories.)
 "Might as well perma me ... I will never stop ... I want him to ban me ... I don't care if my account survives or not" (Come back in a month to cumpost, even though you have an "extremely long" histories of histories.)
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(01-18-2025, 12:18 AM)Snoopy wrote: I checked the trans thing. Fucking awful
How incredibly specific.
(01-18-2025, 03:42 AM)BIONIC wrote: (01-18-2025, 03:27 AM)benji wrote: ![[Image: KJXiSJx.png]](https://i.imgur.com/KJXiSJx.png)
He has what?!? 
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Bluesky absolutely seems like the perfect platform to tell people you have CP. Maybe you can even find others who have CP too and share and get more CP!
Spoiler: (click to show)(click to hide) What the fuck could he possibly be talking about unless he's talking about actual CP
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(01-18-2025, 03:16 AM)BIONIC wrote: DryCreek, post: 134482725, member: 1950 wrote:I understand wanting moderation to feel personable. But over the years ive grown tired of them weighing into topics with their personal opinion. It creates an inherent power inbalance and encourages certain groups to act out because of the appearance of having the moderation teams backing. it also creates a silencing effect where if you disagree with a moderator you are aware that your post will likely get more scrutiny. I think it puts people off from discussing stuff creating a further echo chamber. Im not suggesting that mods become 100% anonymous, we know modbot was a failure for that reason. what im suggesting is that mods have their personal account for personal interaction with the community, but that account can still get actionned for breaking the rules and users can ignore them if they wish. and they have a corresponding mod account which is for official actions and communications only named in a way so people dont know which mod account belongs to which user. I think its jsut no longer good that the mod team puts their thumb on the scales on certain topics as it has contributed to some of the toxicity we see in the community where we often see a "its okay to act like an asshole solong as i am correct" mentality. Which coincidentally is something i believe should be moderated what use is being a completely "progressive space" if everyone is always taking chunks out of each other for not 100% following the correct opinions we need to be able to feel safe to disagree or even the space to get something wrong and learn without being treated like an active member of the republican party.
harinezumi, post: 134488638, member: 10897 wrote:On the last community thread I said something similar and got thread banned for "conspiracy theories" and misrepresenting moderation. It's absolutely a thing that happens. Some users have basically made hijacking threads to be snarky assholes their entire schtick but since they're on the right side of the argument nothing happens. I ended up putting most of these users on ignore once I realized they have a carte blanche to do whatever they want without consequence.
Ra, post: 134491845, member: 16570 wrote:That's because you insinuated the mod staff was using posters as mouthpieces and giving them immunity to punishment to push agendas. As you are here. Which isn't true.
You're mad because you've gotten bans for being on the "wrong side of the argument", sure I get that. But if the wrong side was a viewpoint bad enough or expressed badly enough to get you banned, whose fault is that? Has nothing to do with the mod staff or anyone else. That's a you problem.
harinezumi, post: 134492076, member: 10897 wrote:Mouthpiece was the wrong word to use and I absolutely apologize for that. I'm not sure what the correct term would be. I'm not angry I got banned, it just upsets me how some threads can just be hijacked completely with no consequence. Again Im sorry if I used the wrong word.
If I ever got banned for being on the wrong side of an argument I'm sure I had it coming.
Immediately turned into a lil bitch 
Oh no, not a little bitch. I think that was completely intentional and sarcastic as fuck.
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01-18-2025, 05:07 AM
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(01-18-2025, 03:31 AM)Pwnz wrote: Era doesn't know the meaning of many words. Unsolicited spying and not liking other people's thoughts is not harassment.
Unsolicited spying?
(01-18-2025, 03:16 AM)BIONIC wrote: DryCreek, post: 134482725, member: 1950 wrote:I understand wanting moderation to feel personable. But over the years ive grown tired of them weighing into topics with their personal opinion. It creates an inherent power inbalance and encourages certain groups to act out because of the appearance of having the moderation teams backing. it also creates a silencing effect where if you disagree with a moderator you are aware that your post will likely get more scrutiny. I think it puts people off from discussing stuff creating a further echo chamber. Im not suggesting that mods become 100% anonymous, we know modbot was a failure for that reason. what im suggesting is that mods have their personal account for personal interaction with the community, but that account can still get actionned for breaking the rules and users can ignore them if they wish. and they have a corresponding mod account which is for official actions and communications only named in a way so people dont know which mod account belongs to which user. I think its jsut no longer good that the mod team puts their thumb on the scales on certain topics as it has contributed to some of the toxicity we see in the community where we often see a "its okay to act like an asshole solong as i am correct" mentality. Which coincidentally is something i believe should be moderated what use is being a completely "progressive space" if everyone is always taking chunks out of each other for not 100% following the correct opinions we need to be able to feel safe to disagree or even the space to get something wrong and learn without being treated like an active member of the republican party.
harinezumi, post: 134488638, member: 10897 wrote:On the last community thread I said something similar and got thread banned for "conspiracy theories" and misrepresenting moderation. It's absolutely a thing that happens. Some users have basically made hijacking threads to be snarky assholes their entire schtick but since they're on the right side of the argument nothing happens. I ended up putting most of these users on ignore once I realized they have a carte blanche to do whatever they want without consequence.
Ra, post: 134491845, member: 16570 wrote:That's because you insinuated the mod staff was using posters as mouthpieces and giving them immunity to punishment to push agendas. As you are here. Which isn't true.
You're mad because you've gotten bans for being on the "wrong side of the argument", sure I get that. But if the wrong side was a viewpoint bad enough or expressed badly enough to get you banned, whose fault is that? Has nothing to do with the mod staff or anyone else. That's a you problem.
harinezumi, post: 134492076, member: 10897 wrote:Mouthpiece was the wrong word to use and I absolutely apologize for that. I'm not sure what the correct term would be. I'm not angry I got banned, it just upsets me how some threads can just be hijacked completely with no consequence. Again Im sorry if I used the wrong word.
If I ever got banned for being on the wrong side of an argument I'm sure I had it coming.
Immediately turned into a lil bitch 
Ra, post: 134495190, member: 16570 wrote:I appreciate that. Mistakes in wording happen, it's just that the hostile implication that not everyone is treated the same is serious. To be frank, most of the biggest blowups we have had were because people who were "in the right" were still banned because of the language they used while expressing their anger and frustration with the given situation.
I also don't deny that there is perceived to be an imbalance when conversing with a moderator. Like right now, you may be feeling the need to be aggressively apologetic to make sure you don't get banned. Are you sweating, waiting for the axe to drop? I think about that often which is why I rarely engage in direct conversation on the forum outside of jokes and lighthearted threads. I don't WANT my mere presence to be a downer.
Thing is, if I post like this, it's usually because I decided that the conversation would be more fruitful than the moderation. I like conversations. I like to save situations from escalating. I'm big on outreach.
In my years of being a mod, only one person has gotten banned in a direct back and forth with me. And it was due to them getting reported by someone else for ignoring my explanation of why they were being racist about the music in a game trailer. And even then I gave a couple more tries before they had gone too far and other staff made the decision. I tried.
I guess my last thought is that asking the mods to not engage with the community is unrealistic.
If you don't mind, I'd appreciate it if you'd explain what you mean by threads being "hijacked without consequences". What type of threads on which side of the forum? If there is something we're missing, I would like to hear about it.
harinezumi, post: 134495484, member: 10897 wrote:Thanks for the response, I appreciate it, really.
Over the years I've seen situations, mostly on the off topic side but it does happen on gaming side too, where a user will just feel the need to spam a thread in a very confrontational manner, either picking fights, ban baiting or just posting borderline spam to the point the thread becomes hard to read for everyone. And once the thread is closed, either because people get too angry or it's become too derailed, nothing happens. The user then does the same thing on another thread and the cycle repeats. I had to block, for example, a specific user who I won't name after a thread in offtopic where they became the top poster, with twice as many post as the next two users combined, and it was mostly drive by shit, which just went unchecked forever. Trying to read through that thread was just impossible. I can't even remember what the thread was about at this point since it was so long ago. And this user has (or had) a pattern of doing this all the time. It's hard after some time not to start believing the leash isn't as tight when something like that happens and it's the same people every single time.
So you can say the N-word on Era but not on the Bire? Nice freedom of speech there, Benji.
01-18-2025, 05:34 AM
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(01-18-2025, 03:13 AM)benji wrote: Here, I made a ResetERA.com friendly screenshot:
![[Image: SFkE6Ea.png]](https://i.imgur.com/SFkE6Ea.png)
Why is that thread acting he's crying about this and this kind of person is the entire fandom of a game that sold millions of copies?
wow this is really insensitive, it contains all the identifying information for all of the people involved, imagine if some poor homo was curious and went and looked up the original tweet and was then exposed to this hate speech?
you're so banned, mister
So reposting harassment with fag in it is bannable, but calling someone a house n-word is okay on Era?
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harinezumi wrote:I can't even remember what the thread was about at this point since it was so long ago. And this user has (or had) a pattern of doing this all the time. It's hard after some time not to start believing the leash isn't as tight when something like that happens and it's the same people every single time.
This feels so non-descript and common I can't imagine who it is...
01-18-2025, 06:09 AM
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(01-18-2025, 05:29 AM)Gameboy Nostalgia wrote: So you can say the N-word on Era but not on the Bire? Nice freedom of speech there, Benji. Because all users on The Bire are cacs or honorary cacs.
(01-18-2025, 04:41 AM)DJ Bedroom wrote: (01-18-2025, 03:42 AM)BIONIC wrote: (01-18-2025, 03:27 AM)benji wrote: ![[Image: KJXiSJx.png]](https://i.imgur.com/KJXiSJx.png)
He has what?!? 
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Bluesky absolutely seems like the perfect platform to tell people you have CP. Maybe you can even find others who have CP too and share and get more CP!
Spoiler: (click to show)(click to hide) What the fuck could he possibly be talking about unless he's talking about actual CP
Quote:Remember Gamergate? Well… it's happening again. After writing an exposé about how a video game consultancy was attacked, journalist Alyssa Mercante found herself in the crosshairs of a targeted harassment campaign.
Alyssa joins Taylor to discuss what it's like being at the center of an organized smear campaign, how she's fighting back.
IT NEVER ENDED TAYLOR
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As long as I can call people cumstains and crackers all is right with the bire.
(01-18-2025, 06:49 AM)benji wrote:
Quote:Remember Gamergate? Well… it's happening again. After writing an exposé about how a video game consultancy was attacked, journalist Alyssa Mercante found herself in the crosshairs of a targeted harassment campaign.
Alyssa joins Taylor to discuss what it's like being at the center of an organized smear campaign, how she's fighting back.
IT NEVER ENDED TAYLOR 
Two grifters grifting.
This new season of drama is dying too fast. What happened to Fat4All's crusade?
01-18-2025, 07:26 AM
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(01-18-2025, 05:28 AM)BIONIC wrote: [QUOTE=Ra, post: 134495190, member: 16570"]
I appreciate that. Mistakes in wording happen, it's just that the hostile implication that not everyone is treated the same is serious. To be frank, most of the biggest blowups we have had were because people who were "in the right" were still banned because of the language they used while expressing their anger and frustration with the given situation.
 They've directly said they give preference to certain users because they are "marginalized voices," needed for Era.
Everything is always, "We never do that! Only when it's for the greater good do we do it. But it's not wrong when we do it. How dare you you imply that!"
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https://www.resetera.com/threads/the-anti-social-century-the-atlantic.1083552/page-2#post-134447115 wrote:Quote:The economic rational is strange because it is down for EVERYONE across all income brackets. If it was just because economics then there wouldn't also be a dramatic drop off from the affluent. I don't think if a poorer person hit the mega millions they would all of the sudden transform into a social butterfly now that they have the capital to do whatever they wanted.
It's amazing the amount of people I hear from whose dream is just to have a house in the middle of nowhere and no longer have to interact with society. That always sounds like hell to me. Even as someone who has just started to become more social the idea of not having any more social interaction outside of wife doesn't sound enticing at all.
I feel like the ever increasing surveillance nature of people outside has been a big contributor in people not socializing. Every instance of something mildly "weird" has multiple people excited to pull out their phones and record so people's anxiety is always high lest they become the next "look at this weirdo in public." The amount of times I've seen someone try to record someone because they didn't have a perfectly choreographed dance is depressing. All of my favorite person-to-person interaction these days has minimal to 0 cell phones
This is a less discussed catalyst for this surge of non-sociability. How the fuck are people, especially younger people, suppose to hone and refine their social skills without running the risk of being the center of attention of thousands of people just because a faux pas or their inherent difficulties with socializing? They're being conditioned into turning everyday life happenings into "content" that needs to be consumed and analyzed to such a degree that it's giving them bouts of absolute paranoia. CANCEL CULTURE DOES NOT EXIST
(01-18-2025, 07:24 AM)Gameboy Nostalgia wrote: This new season of drama is dying too fast. What happened to Fat4All's crusade? Not everyone has the privilege of not tweeting all day about Switch 2, video games and wanting cock while replying to everything and anything people they follow tweet.
Can someone tell me wtf I missed. I’m not following from the last few pages. It seems B-Dumbs went on a ban spree?
Saw the new banner
Thank you Benji
(01-18-2025, 05:29 AM)Gameboy Nostalgia wrote: So you can say the N-word on Era but not on the Bire? Nice freedom of speech there, Benji.
Once racism and identity politics are officially gone it'll be back.
(01-18-2025, 06:49 AM)benji wrote:
Quote:Remember Gamergate? Well… it's happening again. After writing an exposé about how a video game consultancy was attacked, journalist Alyssa Mercante found herself in the crosshairs of a targeted harassment campaign.
Alyssa joins Taylor to discuss what it's like being at the center of an organized smear campaign, how she's fighting back.
IT NEVER ENDED TAYLOR  The only person I ever see talking about Alyssa Mercante is Alyssa Mercante herself. Don't think I've ever seen a bigger ego on a games writer since Gita Jackson.
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They're all the same and why do they act like this? God knows, because none of them have any achievements to their name.
At least Jason published a few books. All these people publish is weird porn fantasies and false rumors.
In fact they're not even in tune with the gaming community at large, missing the biggest trends and not reporting on some of the biggest games because reasons.
They call it gamergate but these people have fuck all to do with gaming and they should stop bothering the rest of us with their bullshit.
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01-18-2025, 10:58 AM
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Does kinda feel like the industry’s immune system is kicking into effect. A grand shedding of useless moralists.
All they had to do was tell us which games were good and which were bad. Nobody wanted to click on Kotaku for an essay on mastectomies.
(01-18-2025, 06:51 AM)Gameboy Nostalgia wrote: cumstains and crackers
and whiskers on kittens
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