Journal of Other Forum Analysis

[Hap Shaughnessy]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/slightly-nsfw-need-advice-for-future-marriage-with-partner.735411/

[benji]

OP edited out the sex stuff, but you can get the jist from later posts:

Bjs overrated. Is the sex good? If yes. Live with if.

We haven't done it enough. Usually when I offer the full thing, she changes it to oral on her. I also have a hard time climaxing - it takes forever to do so when it's not my hands.

Not sure yet. I've never had oral in my life. Usually I ask, get told they're not into it, then it doesn't happen. My girlfriend consistently asks for oral but every time I've asked she's not interested at all. I wouldn't ever force it on her, so I back down but it's been mentally hurting me off and on for a couple of years.

Second thread you've posted where you were bothered by the lack of oral. So clearly this is something that really bothers you.

I agree and I want to be clear that consent is extremely important to me. That's why I find it hard to talk about the subject with her - she doesn't like the idea of performing oral and I don't want to ever make her feel super scared or uncomfortable. Her feelings matter to me a ton and I want to just watch out what I say/do. However I do agree a bit on the earlier subject of not taking in her partner's needs into consideration - usually she likes the act performed on her first and seems disinterested 75% of the time when it's my turn to receive.

Well man I got to be honest with you BJ's don't usually increase after marriage. For most they decrease, I've been lucky that they stayed about the same as before marriage so if she's not doing it at all right now I highly doubt it's going to get better after marriage. And honestly it makes a huge difference if the person giving the bj is into it so if they are just doing it to make you stop bugging them about it for a while it's probably not going to be very good anyway.

Reading this made me hurt a lot internally. I feel like she will never excitedly or passionately do that to me ever. I've been hurt multiple times throughout high school, college and now with the rejection of oral. In fact I don't feel like she's super into doing stuff to me, which stinks because I go/feel crazy doing stuff to her. I've cried about the lack of oral a few times to myself and feel it hitting me now because I feel like women must find me unattractive to do stuff down there to me. It's also an incredibly difficult subject for me to talk about in person because of me being sexually assaulted before.

You should really talk to a therapist, OP, about your fixation for oral / feelings around it. That doesn't seem healthy.

I mean... your posts say differently, OP.
You have said you wouldn't marry her if oral was never allowed.
You have said that lack of oral has made you cry.
You have said you have been rejected from oral before.
You have said you have insecurity about being unattractive in that region due to past rejections.
That is not the healthy behavior or mindset of someone. You have a hyper-fixation on oral, and you really need to talk to a trained mental health professional to help you work through it before you screw up your relationship with your SO for good. As is, you definitely aren't ready for marriage. If you can't talk to your partner about anything / everything, you will never have a healthy relationship.

                   armchair psychologizing without a medical license?
 

[The Actual Ldcommando]

Where's visawife when you need him? He's probably an expert in not getting sex from the wife his parents got him.

[Taco Bell Tower]

SweetNicole still posts there?

[Colonel Mustard]

You’ll find more salient relationship advice watching Love on the Spectrum on Netflix than you will asking on era.

[benji]

They'd honestly get better advice by just assuming other people aren't completely unfathomable and likely think similar to how you do so you might be able to communicate with them.

One of the things I liked about the thread is everybody focusing on his weird oral sex thing and not how far he's putting the cart before the horse because he's afraid if they get married and I guess later at some point move out and live together her drug addict mom will come live with them and ruin everything. Maybe just move out and live together first? You're allowed to do this now without getting married, despite what the "women" who complain about video games thread says about it.

[Daffy Duck]

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How long until Nepnep and Royalfats drop in to say this is all just a little bit of chaos?

It was obviously the whites

[Greatness Gone]

The irony of SweetNicole telling someone to get therapy. 

[Taco Bell Tower]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/cnn-releases-audio-of-former-president-trump-sharing-confidential-documents-with-staffers-acknowledging-the-documents-are-top-secret.735372/#post-108059328
entremetGPT

One thing Jake Tapper mentioned, in a podcast I think, not on CNN, that Trump also had documents in his New Jersey golf course.

Presumably, he would ship the documents to "impress" people. That's totally Trump.

This man is a child in his thinking.

"Hey, Johnny, check out my baseball card collection!"

It's that energy I get from Trump.

Ree do the same with Funko Pop

[HardcoreRetro]

Can someone explain to me how people are getting slavery from FF16?

The bearers are literally branded and sent off to camps to concentrate them. There's nothing else that could possibly point to. Has to be the transatlantic slave trade.

[Potato]

Can someone explain to me how people are getting slavery from FF16?

The bearers are literally branded and sent off to camps to concentrate them. There's nothing else that could possibly point to. Has to be the transatlantic slave trade.

Everything is always all about their very specific concerns and problems. It is known.

[Besticus Maximus]

Wizards, Virgins and incels! I need your advice on how to get a blowjob from a woman

[HardcoreRetro]

Can someone explain to me how people are getting only slavery from FF16?

The bearers are literally branded and sent off to camps to concentrate them. There's nothing else that could possibly point to. Has to be the transatlantic slave trade.

Everything is always all about their very specific concerns and problems. It is known.

I see I missed putting an "only" in my comment. Game deals with opression as a universal theme. I hate that most stuff we get to read comes from an American point of view only. Literal black and white shit.

I as a dutch guy can just as easily read the game as dealing with Dutch treatment of Indonesian people. It's as if it's a universal theme.

[BisMarckie]

I have now read the last 40 pages since I have last visited this place. 

And people say that reading is a good way to improve your education smh

[benji]

Can someone explain to me how people are getting only slavery from FF16?

The bearers are literally branded and sent off to camps to concentrate them. There's nothing else that could possibly point to. Has to be the transatlantic slave trade.

Everything is always all about their very specific concerns and problems. It is known.

I see I missed putting an "only" in my comment. Game deals with opression as a universal theme. I hate that most stuff we get to read comes from an American point of view only. Literal black and white shit.

I as a dutch guy can just as easily read the game as dealing with Dutch treatment of Indonesian people. It's as if it's a universal theme.

That doesn't make sense, why would a bunch of Japanese dudes write about anything but American history?

[DocWager]

That oral guy is fucked up beyond belief. Sex for him is walking on eggshells. 

She’s apparently already sleeping with you, just go down on her slowly, and softly, then eat that pussy. Hope she wants it, and rewards it. 

I don’t care for blowjobs. Most women are bad at it, and are going off what they saw in a porn. They tend to bite too. Like they don’t realize it isn’t bullet proof. Just getting my prick in that pussy, and making it wet all night is usually my aim. Honestly I feel like I’m accomplishing more eating ladies out, than they are sucking my cock.

[clockwork5]

This dude doesn’t need therapy. He needs a whore. Just pay someone $50 to suck your dick so you can walk away and think “THAT, is what I was going to throw away my relationship for??”

Honestly OP sounds like a walking case of morbid insecurity, your GF giving you a blowjob ain’t gonna fix that.

[benji]

I don't want to get all boys club on you guys but if his mother-in-law-to-be really is a drug addict then maybe he's not looking on the bright side of a two birds one stone type of situation here.

[jorma]

i think you all missed the part where his gf happily receives oral but won't give it back

dude's a cuck and she's taking full advantage 

[DocWager]

To be fair I feel like I’m committing more harm to myself just reading all that fucking loser shit, so I might’ve missed it. But if that’s the case he needs to move on. I just highly doubt he can find anything else. That’s probably what he’s most afraid of.

[RetiredSkunk]

If she won't suck the dick.
Send her to the sticks.

[books]

Probably because he won't suck her dick so it's tit for tat.

[Greatness Gone]

Can someone explain to me how people are getting slavery from FF16?

The bearers are literally branded and sent off to camps to concentrate them. There's nothing else that could possibly point to. Has to be the transatlantic slave trade.

To be fair, Square did write in some low-hanging fruit that made it easy for the woke mob to make parallels. "Bearer-lover" for instance

[Taco Bell Tower]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/is-the-dc-brand-damaged.735537/
Marvel bootlicker

With the Box Office performance of "The Flash" in theaters I guess we should probably have this conversation.

Many seem to claim that "DC" as a brand is damaged and needs to take a break.

However, non "DCEU" films such as The Batman or Joker have done fine, and shows divorced from the "Snyderverse" aesthetic like CW's Arrowverse and arguably Peacemaker have all done well. Which to me shows that the DC brand still has strength.

Do you think the failures of the "DCEU" have poisoned the well for all things DC?

Obligatory:

[Taco Bell Tower]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/five-nights-at-freddys-official-trailer-oct-27.735570/#post-108084921

Just a reminder that FNAF Creator Scott Cawthon donated to Donald Trump and multiple other anti-LGBTQIA+ Republicans (such as Mitchell McConnell, who Scott gave 5,000 USD and Tulsi Gabbard who Scott gave 2,500 USD). You can find that full list here.

[Hap Shaughnessy]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/john-goodman-said-he-felt-bad-for-roseanne-and-feels-terrible-about-the-whole-thing-today-roseanne-went-on-a-massive-anti-semitic-rant.735645/#post-108092793

Wtf is wrong with her... Good lord.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roseanne_Barr#Early_life

At age 16, Barr was hit by a car, and the car's hood ornament impaled her skull; the incident left her with a traumatic brain injury.[9] Her behavior changed so radically that she was institutionalized for eight months at Utah State Hospital.[12][13]

 

[DocWager]

To be fair, it’s crazy people(Era) judging other crazy people.

[Nintex]

The troubled young man probably didn't wash his beautiful majestic phallus gifted to him by god

[Hap Shaughnessy]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/danish-food-ingredient-company-chr-hansen-pulls-all-of-its-online-lgbtq-support-after-receiving-threats-against-its-us-employees-bloomberg.735489/#post-108074463

stop giving keyboard warriors power. their loud because there assholes not because theyll actually do shit

 

[Hap Shaughnessy]

All that companies see now is how the Busch boycott worked out versus the way the Hogwarts boycott went.